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Sunday, March 27, 2016

Christ is Risen... He is risen indeed!

Did you hear the news today? Jesus, the One crucified on the cross, is risen! Do you believe it? Have you told anyone about it? Jesus' resurrection is unreasonable and awe-inspiring. It was no more reasonable more than 2,000 years ago than it is today. Rise from the dead? How? And why wasn't there any warning? There was. The prophets, and Jesus himself, repeatedly foretold this death and resurrection. At least three times, we are told, Jesus predicted His impending death.

On Easter Sunday the church tells the story of the empty tomb and the charge by the messenger to “go and tell.”  For the next several weeks Christians tell and retell stories of Jesus’ first followers who encountered Him against all hope. Amidst their doubt, fear, and longing, suddenly He was present -risen from the dead, and encountering them in a locked room, by the lakeshore, on the road to Emmaus.

The Church combines these resurrection stories with stories from Acts of the Apostles: the efforts of the first Christian communities to spread the gospel through the world. The early church celebrated these weeks after Easter. They instructed newly baptized Christians during this time, and encouraged them to explore, in their new community, the joyful mystery of the encounter of the risen Christ with their lives. As we celebrate, we learn again to recognize the risen Jesus where He is to be found: in our midst, in our stories, in the breaking of the bread - and as we faithfully bear witness to the reality of Christ’s presence to the world.

Jesus said: "See, we are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be handed over to the chief priests and scribes, and they will condemn him to death; then they will hand him over to the Gentiles to be mocked and flogged and crucified; and on the third day he will be raised" (Matthew 20:18-19).

Yet the witnesses at Jesus' tomb were surprised. The Gospel of Mark tells us that "terror and amazement" seized them. They were so afraid they said nothing to anyone - at first. But when they began sharing the good news of God's love for both Jews and gentiles, the Holy Spirit moved among them (Acts 10).

Likewise today, the Easter story of God's love for all should be shared. We too are disciples of Jesus, growing in Christ's image and our relationship with God. The Easter story inspires and asserts God's unfathomable love for us: Jesus broke the powers of sin and death, canceled our debt of sin and opened the way to new life through God's grace.

We need that good news, and so does our world. Economic turbulence, warfare and injustices run rampant today. We live in "catastrophic, catatonic, catalytic" times. Our world yearns for new movement. Evil, though not always acknowledged, is among us. But the Easter story reminds us how Jesus embodied God's redeeming love for all.

Like those first witnesses at Jesus' grave, how often are we afraid, unwilling or not invited to share our stories? Created in God's image, we each have a piece of God's story. As we welcome each other into this unfolding story, we empower each other. Storytelling, at its core, is an act of hospitality. And we have an amazing story to tell: Jesus no longer lives among us but within us.

We continue sharing today. "This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it," says Psalm 118:24.

And what a reason for gladness and joy: The Lord is risen! Now let us share this good news with the world.

I AM - BECAUSE HE FIRST LOVED ME! ~ Stafford

“For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to Him through the death of His Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through His life!” ~ Romans 5:10

Saturday, April 04, 2015

Self-respect

Your Needs - It isn’t selfish to take care of your needs; it is essential. You are instructed to put the oxygen
mask on yourself first on a plane. Likewise, you take care of yourself so that you will have something to give to others in a healthy way. It is easy to neglect your needs in difficult relationships because others often pressure you to put them first, but if you don’t honor yourself by taking care of your needs, you are not respecting yourself.

Your Boundaries – Difficult people don’t like boundaries and will push you to change them for their own selfish interest. Your boundaries define what is and isn’t acceptable for you. When you allow things to violate your boundaries, you are disrespecting yourself because you are living in a way that violates your standards. Figure out what your limits are, and then respect yourself by standing firm in them.

Your Opinions – Remember, just because someone says it doesn’t make it so. Don’t discount your thoughts and beliefs because other people disagree with you. Your opinions are just that – yours. It doesn’t make them wrong when someone believes differently. It is tempting to give in to the pressure in difficult relationships to conform yourself to others’ perceptions and beliefs, but you need to resist it to be true to yourself.

Your Feelings – It is tempting to judge your feelings as right or wrong, but your feelings are simply there to teach you about how you are being affected by the people in your life so you can make decisions that value yourself. It is tempting to discount them and deny them. Instead, let yourself feel all your emotions, pay attention to them, and let them teach you about yourself.

Your Talents – God gave you your gifts and talents and expects you to do something with them. Don’t neglect them to take care of others or minimize them by deciding they are unimportant; instead, work on accepting yourself just as God made you rather than putting yourself down and comparing yourself to others. And figure out how to fulfill the purpose that God made you for by using your talents wisely.

Respecting yourself is important because if you don’t respect yourself, others won’t either.

Pray with me...

Dear Lord God,
Help me live in a way that honours who You made me to be and conduct myself in a way that is self-respecting.
Amen

Monday, February 02, 2015

Awaken your soul to the eternal things...

I was out jogging one day when I noticed a person in front of me; about a quarter of a mile ahead. I could tell he was running a little slower than me, and I thought, 'good', I'll try to catch him. I had about a mile to go on my path before I needed to turn off.

So I started running faster and faster. Every block, I was gaining on him just a little bit. After just a few minutes I was only about 100 yards behind him, so I really picked up the pace and pushed myself. One would have thought I was running the last leg of an Olympic event, so determined was I to catch him. And finally I did it! I caught up and passed him by.

On the inside I felt so good. "I beat him!", of course he didn't even know we were racing. And after I passed him, I realised that I had been so focused on competing against him, that I had missed my turn. I had gone nearly six blocks past it. I had to turn around and go all the way back.

Isn't that just what happens in life when we focus on competing with co-workers, neighbours, friends, family - trying to outdo them, or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important? We fail to recognise that we spend our time and energy running after them; and we miss out on our own path to our God given destinies. We compare our journey Home with temporary things, instead of Jesus Christ's example.

The problem with unhealthy competition is that it is a never ending cycle. There will always be somebody
ahead of one - someone with a better job, a nicer car, more money in the bank, more education, a more attractive partner, better behaved children, etc. It is therefore very important, and more blessed, to realise that, "You can be the best that you can be, when you are not competing with anyone." - i.e. just being a better YOU than yesterday. Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention to what others are doing, where others are going, wearing, driving and living.

Take and use what God has given you - your height, weight, personality, state of prosperity and current circumstances. Dress well and wear it proudly! Let it blend into your Godly character. You'll be blessed by it, when using it to the glory of God!

Stay focused and live a healthy life. There's no competition in DESTINY - run your own RACE and wish others WELL! There are no comparisons in ETERNITY - to wit - ETERNITY is incomparable...


Thursday, January 22, 2015

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE?

Good Day to y'all - give thanks with a grateful heart...

Browsing through the messages on my various social media platforms earlier, I came across this cryptic 'missal': "What have you done?"

Nothing further, just the question, "What have you done?" - it was amazing (yet not surprising) how my immediate thoughts went scouring through my behaviour, my utterances and actions that may have caused distress or harm to someone. In other words, I looked for the worst thing I may have perpetrated recently that would condemn me as a 'bad person.' I don't know, because the message didn't elaborate on anything, or give me any indication about what I was supposed to have done - and because I cannot read minds, does that mean (the intention is this?) I have to squirm in torment?

It prompted me to say a quick prayer request for guidance; as to how I should proceed; and then an amazing thing happened - my ruthless optimism kicked in; my FAITH in a loving, gracious and merciful God brought my mind back to the realisation that His peace is with me.

If 'what I have done' has caused disharmony that is contrary to His glory, I must ask for forgiveness, and do whatever I can, within the scope of my changing attitude and resources to set it right, or retract it - incidentally, I couldn't think of anything that was sooo bad that I couldn't correct with His help and strength - then again 'what have I done', could be something good or worthily life-changing for this other entity that I may have affected - I'd like to think that is the case...

I just pray that the next time someone leaves the message, "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE?" - my first thought would be peaceful, because whatever I do should always be to the glory of God; and thereby cryptic oneliners become commonplace validation of the goodness inside of me; and not the agony of ambivalent self-recriminations.

Stay blessed - and remember, no good deed goes unpunished (",)

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Given For Free...

I have no doubt that many of us are carrying some deep wounds that we’ve carried for months, maybe even years. When one thinks about that person who hurt one, it’s still as fresh as if it happened this morning. The pain is still there, and we’re still filled with resentment.

We say, “Why in the world should I forgive that person who hurt me so much? You have no idea how much they hurt me. Why should I offer grace to that person?”

We ought to do it for three reasons:

1. We need to be gracious to others and forgive those who have hurt us because God has been gracious to us.

We can never forgive anyone else more than Christ has already forgiven us. We should consider that we don't always get what we deserved, either. God has been gracious to us; now be gracious with others.

2. We need to forgive others because the alternative is bitterness.

Scientists tell us that resentment is the unhealthiest emotion there is. It always hurts you more than anybody else! Resentment will not change the past, and it won’t solve the problem. It doesn’t even make you feel better. In fact, it makes you feel worse.

Scripture says (and I paraphrase), “Be careful that none of you fails to respond to the grace which God gives; for if you do there can very easily spring up in you a bitter spirit, which is not only bad in itself, but can also poison the lives of many others.”

3. We need to show grace to and forgive others because God expects us to do it.

If one says, “I could never forgive that person,” then best hope you never sin. If you just don’t feel like doing it, do it anyway, because it’s the right thing to do.

The reason why some of us have a hard time forgiving is because we don’t feel forgiven; and if that is so, pray this prayer of liberation and freedom from the depths of your heart:

“Dear Lord, You know that I have been hurt by others. You know that my resentment has made me act in ways that have been unreasonable and unhelpful and unhealthy. I need Your power to release and forgive those who have hurt me so I can stop letting them control me. Lord, please replace my hurt with your peace. God, I realize that I have hurt a lot of other people with my habits and my bad decisions and my hang-ups; please forgive me for the way I've hurt others. Help me to make a list of those I've harmed and in the right way at the right time to humbly seek to make amends. I want to refocus my life on YOU. I want to face the future courageously with love and peace in my heart. I implore You, dear Father, to help me replace my resentment with Your love, and my bitterness with Your grace.
My sincere and contrite thanks for Your gracious forgiveness for all the things that I've done wrong - help me to help You set things right. Amen.”

This is the first and most important step to start loving yourself again; in His mercy and to His glory - stay blessed, love Staf xxxxxxx


Wednesday, December 31, 2014

2015 - the New Year beckons change...

To me, the start of my day, on New Year's Eve always seems like a Sunday morning - which isn't all that strange considering that although it is the end of a secular now, it is an integral part of something new - a change - that doesn't remain new; we can only count on it remaining constant (take Monday mornings, for instance) - and that is what New Years, days, months and things are all about - constant change. Hopefully and prayerfully for the best and, please God, of and in ourselves...

IT IS OBVIOUS WHAT KIND OF LIFE DEVELOPS OUT OF TRYING TO GET YOUR OWN WAY ALL THE TIME: REPETITIVE,  LOVELESS,  CHEAP SEX,  A STINKING ACCUMULATION OF MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL GARBAGE,  FRENZIED AND JOYLESS GRABS FOR HAPPINESS,  TRINKET GODS,  MAGIC-SHOW RELIGION,  PARANOID LONELINESS,  CUT-THROAT COMPETITION,  ALL-CONSUMING-YET-NEVER-SATISFIED WANTS,  A BRUTAL TEMPER - SEEDED FROM DISSATISFACTION,  AN IMPOTENCE TO LOVE OR BE LOVED,  DIVIDED HOMES AND DIVIDED LIVES,  SMALL-MINDED AND LOP-SIDED PURSUITS,  THE VICIOUS HABIT OF DEPERSONALISING EVERYONE INTO A RIVAL,  UNCONTROLLED AND UNCONTROLLABLE ADDITIONS,  UGLY PARODIES OF COMMUNITY...

I COULD GO ON... IT'S NOT THE FIRST TIME YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED - IF YOU USE YOUR FREEDOM THIS WAY, YOU WILL NOT INHERIT GOD’S KINGDOM. - Gal 5:19

JESUS TOLD ANOTHER STORY:
“GOD’S KINGDOM IS LIKE A FARMER WHO PLANTED GOOD SEED IN HIS FIELD. THAT NIGHT, WHILE HIS HIRED MEN WERE ASLEEP, HIS ENEMY SOWED THISTLES ALL THROUGH THE HEAT AND SLIPPED AWAY BEFORE DAWN. WHEN THE FIRST GREEN SHOOTS APPEARED AND THE GRAIN BEGAN TO FORM, THE THISTLES SHOWED UP, TOO... THE FARMHANDS CAME TO THE FARMER AND SAID, ‘MASTER, THAT WAS CLEAN SEED YOU PLANTED,WAS IT NOT? WHERE DID THESE THISTLES COME FROM?’

HE ANSWERED, ‘SOME ENEMY DID THIS.’ THE FARMHANDS ASKED, ‘SHOULD WE WEED OUT THE THISTLES?’ HE SAID, ‘NO, IF YOU WEED THE THISTLES, YOU WILL PULL UP THE WHEAT, TOO. LET THEM GROW TOGETHER UNTIL HARVEST TIME. THEN I WILL INSTRUCT THE HARVESTERS TO PULL UP THE THISTLES AND TIE THEM IN BUNDLES FOR THE FIRE, THEN GATHER THE WHEAT AND PUT IT IN THE BARN.’

SO HE EXPLAINED, 'THE FARMER WHO SOWS THE PURE SEED IS THE SON OF MAN. THE FIELD IS THE WORLD, THE PURE SEEDS ARE SUBJECTS OF THE KINGDOM, THE THISTLES ARE SUBJECTS OF THE DEVIL, AND THE ENEMY WHO SOWS THEM IS THE DEVIL. THE HARVEST IS THE END OF THE AGE, THE CURTAIN OF HISTORY. THE HARVEST HANDS ARE ANGELS.
THE PICTURE OF THISTLES PULLED UP AND BURNED IS A SCENE FROM THE FINAL ACT. THE SON OF MAN WILL SEND HIS ANGELS, WEED OUT THE THISTLES FROM HIS KINGDOM, PITCH THEM IN THE TRASH, AND BE DONE WITH THEM. THEY ARE GOING TO COMPLAIN TO HIGH HEAVEN, BUT NOBODY IS GOING TO LISTEN. AT THE SAME TIME, RIPE, HOLY LIVES WILL MATURE AND ADORN THE KINGDOM OF THEIR FATHER.'"

ARE YOU LISTENING TO THIS? - REALLY LISTENING? - GOD’S KINGDOM IS LIKE A TREASURE HIDDEN IN A FIELD FOR YEARS AND THEN ACCIDENTALLY FOUND BY A TRESPASSER. THE FINDER IS ECSTATIC - WHAT A FIND! AND PROCEEDS TO SELL EVERY EXCESS HE OWNS TO RAISE MONEY AND BUY THAT FIELD. - Matt 13:24

MAY THE GRACE OF GOD BE UPON YOU, AND HIS SPIRIT BE YOUR GUIDE IN THIS NEW YEAR - SHALOM : PEACE TO YOU...

Saturday, December 27, 2014

HE leads us in mysterious ways...

Good morning said a woman as she walked up to the man sitting on the ground.

The man slowly looked up.

This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer things of life. Her coat was new... She looked like she had never missed a meal in her life.

His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him, like so many others had done before.. "Leave me alone," he growled....

To his amazement, the woman continued standing.

She was smiling -- her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows. "Are you hungry?" she asked.

"No," he answered sarcastically. "I've just come from dining with the president. Now go away."

The woman's smile became even broader. Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm.

"What are you doing, lady?" the man asked angrily. "I said to leave me alone.

Just then a policeman came up. "Is there any problem, ma'am?" he asked..

"No problem here, officer," the woman answered. "I'm just trying to get this man to his feet. Will you help me?"

The officer scratched his head. "That's old Jack. He's been a fixture around here for a couple of years. What do you want with him?"

"See that cafeteria over there?" she asked. "I'm going to get him something to eat and get him out of the cold for awhile."

"Are you crazy, lady?" the homeless man resisted. "I don't want to go in there!" Then he felt strong hands grab his other arm and lift him up. "Let me go, officer. I didn't do anything."

"This is a good deal for you, Jack" the officer answered. "Don't blow it.."

Finally, and with some difficulty, the woman and the police officer got Jack into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner. It was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast crowd had already left and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived...

The manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table. "What's going on here, officer?" he asked. "What is all this, is this man in trouble?"

"This lady brought this man in here to be fed," the policeman answered.

"Not in here!" the manager replied angrily. "Having a person like that here is bad for business.."

Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. "See, lady. I told you so. Now if you'll let me go. I didn't want to come here in the first place."

The woman turned to the cafeteria manager and smiled....... "Sir, are you familiar with Eddy and Associates, the banking firm down the street?"

"Of course I am," the manager answered impatiently. "They hold their weekly meetings in one of my banquet rooms."

"And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food at these weekly meetings?"

"What business is that of yours?"

I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, president and CEO of the company."

"Oh."

The woman smiled again. "I thought that might make a difference." She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a giggle. "Would you like to join us in a cup of coffee and a meal, officer?"

"No thanks, ma'am," the officer replied. "I'm on duty."

"Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?"

"Yes, ma’am. That would be very nice."

The cafeteria manager turned on his heel, "I'll get your coffee for you right away, officer."

The officer watched him walk away. "You certainly put him in his place," he said.

"That was not my intent. Believe it or not, I have a reason for all this."

She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest. She stared at him intently.. "Jack, do you remember me?"

Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes. "I think so -- I mean you do look familiar."

"I'm a little older perhaps," she said. "Maybe I've even filled out more than in my younger days when you worked here, and I came through that very door, cold and hungry."

"Ma'am?" the officer said questioningly. He couldn't believe that such a magnificently turned out woman could ever have been hungry.

"I was just out of college," the woman began. "I had come to the city looking for a job, but I couldn't find anything. Finally I was down to my last few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment. I walked the streets for days. It was February and I was cold and nearly starving. I saw this place and walked in on the off chance that I could get something to eat."

Jack lit up with a smile. "Now I remember," he said.. "I was behind the serving counter. You came up and asked me if you could work for something to eat. I said that it was against company policy."

"I know," the woman continued. "Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that I had ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go over to a corner table and enjoy it. I was afraid that you would get into trouble... Then, when I looked over and saw you put the price of my food in the cash register, I knew then that everything would be all right."

"So you started your own business?" Old Jack said.

"I got a job that very afternoon. I worked my way up. Eventually I started my own business that, with the help of God, prospered." She opened her purse and pulled out a business card.. "When you are finished here, I want you to pay a visit to a Mr. Lyons...He's the personnel director of my company. I'll go talk to him now and I'm certain he'll find something for you to do around the office." She smiled. "I think he might even find the funds to give you a little advance so that you can buy some clothes and get a place to live until you get on your feet... If you ever need anything, my door is always opened to you."

There were tears in the old man's eyes. "How can I ever thank you?" he said.

"Don't thank me," the woman answered. "To God goes the glory. Thank Jesus...... He led me to you."

Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman paused at the entrance before going their separate ways....

"Thank you for all your help, officer," she said.

"On the contrary, Ms. Eddy," he answered. "Thank you. I saw a miracle today, something that I will never forget. And... and thank you for the coffee."

God is going to shift things around for you today and let things work in your favour.

God closes doors no man can open; and God opens doors no man can close...


Sunday, November 30, 2014

I am NOT ashamed, I hold NO fear... If GOD is for me - who can stand against that...

Some of you may have noticed that certain people did not start giving you a hard time until they saw the Lord really moving in your lives.

Not everyone can handle your progression and development, and I'm not only referring to the natural. I'm also referring to your SPIRITUAL advancement. Not everyone will be happy for you. Some may have liked you better when you lived your life completely COMMITTED to sin, not possessing the desire to change for the better. Now that the Lord has blessed you with a renewed mind and transformed your way of thinking, you may find that those who were once closest to you are now straying from you.

Count it all joy anyway, and continue to allow the Lord to work on you. Your circle may become smaller, and you may not be accepted by most. However, I often say that rejection is MANY times evidence that you belong to Christ. Jesus did not "fit in" with the world. Thus, as His people, we are expected to be different also.

When we join the family of believers and when we truly seek God the way we should, then growth is inevitable. Some may join you and others may not. Yet, for those who have walked out on you, still pray for them. For those who talk about you, still pray for them. For those who continue to bring up your past with ill intentions, still pray for them because these are people who may fully open their hearts to Christ one day.

Just continue advancing. Continue elevating. Continue to allow God to use you, and never allow anyone to make you feel ashamed about your progress.

Just...keep...growing...

(Positivity Inspires © 2014)

Day by Day

You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life....

Day by day, and with each passing moment,
Strength I find, to meet my trials here;
Trusting in my Father’s wise bestowment,
I’ve no cause for worry or for fear.
He whose heart is kind beyond all measure
Gives unto each day what He deems best—
Lovingly, its part of pain and pleasure,
Mingling toil with peace and rest.

Every day, the Lord Himself is near me
With a special mercy for each hour;
All my cares He fain would bear, and cheer me,
He whose name is Counselor and Power;
The protection of His child and treasure
Is a charge that on Himself He laid;
As thy days, thy strength shall be in measure,
This the pledge to me He made.

Help me then, in every tribulation
So to trust Thy promises, O Lord,
That I lose not faith’s sweet consolation
Offered me within Thy holy Word.
Help me, Lord, when toil and trouble meeting,
E’er to take, as from a father’s hand,
One by one, the days, the moments fleeting,
Till I reach the promised land...

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Sunday, November 16, 2014

That's what happiness is...

If you want to awaken happiness in the world around you, start by living a life that makes you happy, and then radiate your happiness outward. If you want to eliminate suffering in the world, start by eliminating the dark and negative parts of yourself, and then radiate your positivity outward.

Truly, the greatest power you have in this world is the power of your own self-transformation. It starts with the one in the mirror.

Today will never come again. Be a blessing. Be a friend. Make a difference. Take time to care. Tell someone how special they are. Do something that encourages a smile and a brighter day. By doing so, you will not only help those around you, you will help yourself too. Because when you seek to inspire happiness in all people, you will not only find it, you will become it.

I have learned too much of the vanity of human affairs to expect any felicity (happy comfort) from public life. But I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may be. For I have learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances. We carry the seeds with us in our minds wherever we go. - Martha Washington

The way we perceive things has so much to do with the way things will seem to perceive us - perceive the world through God, together with his Son, and the Holy Spirit - and I believe we shall perceive and be able to touch what happiness is...

Stay blessed, y'all (",)

Sunday, September 07, 2014

The Friendship Fix - you either got it, or you die alone...

Have you ever heard the phrase “I tell you this because you are my friend”? - Sure you have, maybe you’ve even said it yourself. One thing we know for certain is that the words immediately following are not going to be good. Life is full of these little catch phrases that are shared to signify that we are justified because of our relationship. But through years of experience we find that the hurt caused by one we call friend cuts deeper and leaves a lasting scar on our heart.

Christ spoke of friends, and many when reading His words say He was speaking of a different kind of friendship. “I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.” ~ John 15:15

Once the Book of friendship has been opened, it can never be closed. It is a constant book always written, and always another page to be turned. And still another waiting to be read… And, because the book is of Friendship, it is always enjoyed. You see, the beauty of friendship is that while we may have our disagreements and maybe even argue and ignore each other at times; even when and while we may have deep concerns and questions one for another; through all of the trials a genuine friendship is a unique bond that lasts through the fire… .

What makes this so unique is that a part of me is put into my friends… YES,

Some of it is my humour…
Some of it is my listening ear…
Some of it is real life experiences…
Some of it is my romanticism…
But, with understanding all of one another, this is friendship.

The uniqueness of real Friendship is that it’s forged and always renewing. Stronger than steel built as a foundation, and oh so very necessary for life, and for real love.

Friends, you and me, you brought another friend, and then there were 3… The thing which causes our friendship to grow and our circle to be unending is not our differences because they will always be. Rather, it is found in who we share. You see, our friendship and every friendship is more different than all the world's example. Our differences from that of what the world calls “friend” is that we have built something lasting in Christ, the one who taught us the true meaning of real friendship. Who defined this in us and gave meaning to the precious gift...

It’s found in Him and those who really know Him. The true meaning of an unending love and a continuing circle… Our friendship is not is not a noise or words said in vain, but lasting, for as in love, it is patient, kind, without envy, not boastful, nor is it proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Our friendship does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. You see, worthwhile friendship lasts forever, and never fails to reignite love.

We are blessed by Him and blessed through you for I know the friendship we share will be stronger tomorrow for as His Love grows in me, I in turn give it to you.

One last thing my Friend - if you're excluded by someone from their circle of friends, then there is no real lost friendship to lament - the 'friendship' that only seeks something in return, is a sinful mockery. It is an unforgivable affront to Christ's example, and a hell-damnable offense - true friendship will always seek and strive for reconciliation - if it bears silence and apathy as a result, that lonely, spiteful, hardened and/or broken heart can only fix itself through the grace of God, your prayers and active pleas.

“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” ~ Love In Christ my Friend...

Sorry is nothing, the real apology comes when you can look in their eyes and see they hurt themselves just as much, even more...

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Deal with Your Fear of Honesty

What if that one person in your life right now that you're not feeling so much love for, was also the one person in your life right now for whom you could make the greatest difference?

Deal with Your Fear of Honesty - “Admit your faults to one another and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” ~James 5:16

If you want relief and release from the hurts, habits, and hang-ups in your life, you’re going to have to deal with the fear of honesty that you’ve got in your life. Honesty deals with some of the most common fears that Satan uses to keep you stuck in your rut and afraid to face the truth -

The fear of your own emotions - You’re afraid that if you deal with that issue, memory, event, sin, abuse, accident, or hurt, that you will not be able to handle your emotions and the grief and the shame. You think you may just go crazy! If you’ve ever felt like that, relax. Every human being has had that fear. Everybody has felt at some time in their life that they were losing their mind. It’s not as big a deal as you may think it is. In fact, only rational people have that fear. You are broken, but you are not crazy. You’re also in good company, because we’re all broken. We all have insecurities, fears, and habits we don’t like.

The fear of how others will react - You’re afraid to be honest because you might be rejected or dismissed or abandoned. Others might think you’re less of a believer in God than you claim to be. A fraud. You’re afraid to be yourself, because your overactive emotional mind tells you, that in the end, you’re all you’ve got. And if people don’t like what they see, you’re in trouble. And, you’re afraid that others will try to fix you. You’ve got to get over that fear!

The fear that being honest is useless - What will it do? What’s the point? Why tell anybody else about what you’re struggling with? You feel like you’ve been there before, and it didn’t help - But you didn’t go there! You haven’t ever really been totally honest, because if you had, you’d already be released.

The Bible says, “Admit your faults to one another and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” - When you can let go of your fears and admit your faults to other people, God has promised you the healing you’ve been looking for.

Think and Talk It Over - How does knowing that other people have the same fears as you help you talk about those fears with someone else? What is it about yourself or your past that you want to keep hidden from others? How have you experienced healing through confession to God and by sharing your hurts and fears with others? Question it, question yourself.

Everybody needs healing from some sort of hurt, hang-up, or habit - As the song goes: 'Honesty is such a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue. Honesty is hardly ever heard. And mostly what I (your Father God) need from you...'

The fear of your own emotions.
The fear of how others will react.
The fear that being honest is useless.
 - the release is HONEST COMMUNICATION... to your God and yourself be true.

FEAR is a product of CONTROL - and guess what? You are not in control - GOD IS IN CONTROL - Work with Him to work through you...

(formulation acknowledgement to Rick Warren ~ Stafford)

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Finite and Temporary in this Realm...

Take a step back. You're human. You are beautiful. You are so beautiful and you can be anything you want to be.

Don't hate because someone broke your heart. Or because your parents split. Or because your best friend betrayed you. Or because the kid down the street called you fat, ugly, stupid or worthless.

Cry when you want to and let go when its time. Don't hang on to painful memories because you're afraid to let go. Let go of things that are in the past and keep the lesson learned alive. Forget things that aren't worth remembering.

Stop taking life for granted. Live for something. Live for yourself. Fall in love again and again. Fall out of love. Question things. Tell someone how you really feel. Sleep under the stars.

Confess. Create. Imagine. Inspire. Meet new people. Make someone's day. Follow your dreams. Live life to the fullest. And one day when you're old, should you have been blessed with a long life, you can look back, with no regrets - God being your help and strength...



Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Agree to love yourself more...

There are thousands of agreements you have made with yourself, with other people, with your dream of life, with God, with society, with your parents, with your spouse, with your children. But the most important agreements are the ones you made with yourself. In these agreements you tell yourself who you are, what you feel, what you believe, and how to behave. The result is what you call your personality. In these agreements you say, “This is what I am. This is what I believe. I can do certain things and some things I cannot do. This is reality, that is fantasy; this is possible, that is impossible.”

One single agreement is not such a problem, but we have many agreements that make us suffer, that make us fail in life. If you want to live a life of joy and fulfillment, you have to find the courage to break those agreements that are fear-based and claim your personal power. The agreements that come from fear require us to expend a lot of energy, but the agreements that come from love help us to conserve energy and even gain extra energy.

Each of us is born with a certain amount of personal power that we rebuild every day after we rest. Unfortunately, we spend all our personal power first to create all these agreements and then to keep these agreements. Our personal power is dissipated by all the agreements we have created, and the result is that we feel powerless. We have just enough power to survive each day because most of it is used to keep the agreements that trap us in a dream of the planet. How can we change the entire dream of our life when we have no power to change even the smallest agreement?

If we can see it is our agreements that rule our own life, and we don’t like the dream of our life, we need to change the agreements. When we are finally ready to change our agreements, there are four very powerful agreements that will help us to break those agreements that come from fear and deplete our energy.


Each time you break an agreement, all the power you used to create it returns to you. If you adopt these four new agreements, they will create enough personal power for you to change the entire system of your old agreement.


You need a very strong will in order to adopt The Four Agreements - but if you can begin to live your life with these agreements, the transformation in your life will be amazing. You will see the dream of hell disappear right before your very eyes. Instead of living in a dream of hell, you will be creating a new dream - your personal dream of heaven.

Be Impeccable with Your Word
Don’t Take Anything Personally
Don’t Make Assumptions
Always Do Your Best

Follow these agreements TO THE GLORY OF GOD and, I promise you, the chances of you getting to Heaven will be vastly increased -

NOW...

I have no doubt that many of you are carrying some deep wounds that you’ve carried for months, maybe even years. When you think about that person who hurt you, it’s still as fresh as if it happened this morning. The pain is still there, and you’re still filled with resentment.

You say, “Why in the world should I forgive that person who hurt me so much? You have no idea how much they hurt me. Why should I offer grace to that person?”

You ought to do it for three reasons:

1. You need to be gracious to others and forgive those who have hurt you because God has been gracious to you.

You will never have to forgive anyone else more than Jesus Christ has already forgiven you. You should consider that you haven’t always gotten what you deserved, either. God has been gracious with you. Now be gracious with others.

2. You need to forgive others because the alternative is bitterness.

Scientists tell us that resentment is the unhealthiest emotion there is. It always hurts you more than anybody else! Resentment will not change the past, and it won’t solve the problem. It doesn’t even make you feel better. In fact, it makes you feel worse.

The Bible says, “Be careful that none of you fails to respond to the grace which God gives, for if he does there can very easily spring up in him a bitter spirit which is not only bad in itself but can also poison the lives of many others.”

3. You need to show grace to and forgive others because God expects you to do it.

Matthew 6:15 says, “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” Jesus says we cannot receive what we are unwilling to give. If you say, “I could never forgive that person,” then I hope you never sin. If you just don’t feel like doing it, do it anyway, because it’s the right thing to do.

The reason why some of you have a hard time forgiving is because you don’t feel forgiven...

If so, pray this prayer of liberation and freedom from the depths of your heart:

“Dear Lord, You know that I have been hurt by others. You know that my resentment has made me act in ways that have been unreasonable and unhelpful and unhealthy. I need Your power to release and forgive those who have hurt me so I can stop letting them control me. Would You please replace my hurt with the peace of Jesus Christ?
God, I realize that I have hurt a lot of other people with my habits and my bad decisions and my hang-ups. Would You please forgive me for the way I've hurt others? Help me to make a list of those I've harmed and in the right way at the right time to humbly seek to make amends. I want to refocus my life on YOU. I want to face the future courageously with love and peace in my heart. Would You please help me replace my resentment with Your love, and my bitterness with Your grace? Thank you for your graciousness and for forgiving me for the things that I've done wrong. Amen.” (from "Forgive Because You Are Forgiven" - by Rick Warren)

And remember.... to love yourself - Staf xxxxxxx



Wednesday, August 13, 2014

For the good of a life COMPLETE - meet with the PARACLETE...

Let me share again - this story I read - about the experience of a man who underwent open-heart surgery.

He said, "The day before surgery a nurse came into my room to visit. She took hold of my hand and told me to feel it and hold it."
"Now," she said, "during the surgery tomorrow you will be disconnected from your heart and you will be kept alive only by virtue of certain machines. When your heart is finally restored and the operation is over and you are recovering, you will eventually awaken in a special recovery room.

You will be immobile for as long as six hours. You may be unable to move, or speak, or even to open your eyes, but you will be perfectly conscious. You will hear and you will know everything that is going on around you.

 During those six hours, I will be at your side and I will hold your hand, exactly as I am doing now. I will stay with you until you are fully recovered. Although you may feel absolutely helpless, when you feel my hand, you will know that I will not leave you."

"It happened exactly as the nurse told me. I awoke and could do nothing. But I could feel the nurse's hand in my hand for hours. And that made all the difference!"

The word for His promised presence in the Holy Spirit is PARACLETE - the "One Called Alongside" - Engrave the words of Jesus on your mind until they are such a part of you that even during the hardest times of your life, regardless of how you feel, you will know that He is with you - holding your hand - and He will never leave you nor forsake you, there is nothing that man and this world can do to you with Him as your strength and helper... - Do I hear an 'AMEN'?

Friday, August 01, 2014

I Surrender...


Surrender isn't giving up, nor giving in - it's letting go, and handing it over to the Highest bidder - it's giving it all away to God's will!

“Give me all of you!!! I don’t want ONLY so much of your time, so much of your talents and money, and so much of your work. I want you... ALL OF YOU!! I have NOT come to torment or frustrate the natural man or woman, but to KILL IT! No half measures will do. I don’t want to only prune a branch here and a branch there; rather I want the whole tree out! Hand it over to Me, the whole outfit, all of your desires, all of your wants and wishes and dreams. Turn them ALL over to Me, give yourself to Me and I will make of you a new self - in My image. Give Me yourself and in exchange I will give you Myself. MY WILL, shall become your will. My heart, shall become your heart.” - C.S. Lewis

God bless us all! (",)

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

God is on your side - believe this, and you need fear nothing and no one!

Your life was meant for more than being a life-long doormat for deadbeats, losers, gossipers, naysayers, dream-crushers, energy vampires, users, abusers, ragers and passive-aggressive backstabbers. Some of these people are rabidly-infected with obvious madness. Some have less obvious ways, such as the "helpful" enabler, who sends you off to your destruction with a helping hand and a smile. Some are "doubt-whispers," who plant the seeds of non-belief in your heart to take root, so they can then console you in your inevitable moment of defeat. There are also perpetual victims who feed on your constant attention. Call them what you want, you know exactly who I am talking about. One thing always reveals their sometimes hidden identity - after you have been around them, how do you feel; have you been depleted and drained or energised and revived? Your feelings are your answer...

Saturday, July 19, 2014

Keep the faith...

“I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.” ~ Psalm 27:13

A divorce or any other major crisis in your life will shake your faith. But it is your faith and your trust in Christ that’s going to get you through it. David, after suffering great loss, including the loss of a child, wrote in Psalm 27:13, “I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living” - He would have given up if he hadn't believed in the goodness of God.

Even in those situations where life stinks and it seems dark, believe that God is a good God. Even when everything is going wrong in your life, believe in the goodness of God that can pull you through. Believe that God’s plan for your life is greater than the problem you’re going through. Then, you can also share your faith in God’s goodness with your friends when they are going through a crisis. Friends strengthen their friends’ faith.

How do you get that kind of faith?

The Bible tells us there’s only one place to strengthen your faith. Faith comes from knowing the Word of God. If you know the Bible well, you’re going to have great faith. If you know this book a little, you’re going to have a little faith. If you don’t know this book at all, you’re not going to have any faith. Did you know that in the Bible there are more than 7,000 promises made to you? But you can’t claim them if you don’t know them. If you want to increase your faith so you’re able to handle the rogue winds of life, you’ve got to know the Bible through study, meditation, and memorization.

I hear the whisper of the Lord for you today, saying, "I will use you from now on to bring healing and restoration to many, especially your family. You will see Me move into the impossibilities of your limitations. Everything will be changed through the presence of My Spirit flowing through you. Wounded hearts will learn to rise through the words you speak and the love you release. You are now prepared in every way to bless and heal. Do not look back, for history has not shaped you, I have. The dawning has come and a new revelation has burned its way into every fabric of your life. Today I set you apart as My healing one."

Keep the faith, y'all - the best is yet to come...

Wednesday, July 02, 2014

Please share - to the Glory of God...


THE HEART OF LOVE...

Proclamation of love through the truth is what ensures your name in the Book of Life - it is the workings of your heart that will be published for or against you - all else will pass away...

Don’t you realize that ALL OF YOU TOGETHER ARE THE TEMPLE OF GOD and THAT THE SPIRIT OF GOD LIVES IN YOU? --- GOD will destroy anyone WHO DESTROYS THIS TEMPLE --- FOR GOD'S TEMPLE IS HOLY, and YOU ARE THAT TEMPLE. --- STOP DECEIVING YOURSELVES ---

IF YOU THINK YOU ARE WISE BY THIS WORLD’S STANDARDS, YOU NEED TO BECOME A FOOL TO BE TRULY WISE. --- FOR THE WISDOM OF THIS WORLD IS FOOLISHNESS TO GOD. --- AS THE SCRIPTURES say, “HE TRAPS THE WISE IN THE SNARE OF THEIR OWN CLEVERNESS.”1 COR 3:16

 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * So Paul, standing before the Council, addressed them as follows: “Men of Athens, I NOTICE THAT YOU ARE VERY RELIGIOUS IN EVERY WAY, --- FOR as I was walking along I SAW YOUR MANY SHRINES. - And one of your Altars had this INSCRIPTION on it: ‘TO AN UNKNOWN GOD.’ --- This GOD, WHOM YOU WORSHIP WITHOUT KNOWING, IS THE ONE I'M TELLING YOU ABOUT.--- “HE IS THE GOD WHO MADE THE WORLD and EVERYTHING IN IT. --- SINCE HE IS LORD of HEAVEN and EARTH, HE DOESN'T LIVE IN MAN-MADE TEMPLES, and HUMAN HANDS CAN'T SERVE HIS NEEDS — FOR HE HAS NO NEEDS. --- HE HIMSELF GIVES LIFE and BREATH TO EVERYTHING, and HE SATISFIES EVERY NEED. --- FROM ONE MAN HE CREATED ALL THE NATIONS THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE EARTH.-- HE DECIDED BEFOREHAND WHEN THEY SHOULD RISE and FALL, and HE DETERMINED THEIR BOUNDARIES.--- “HIS PURPOSE WAS FOR THE NATIONS TO SEEK AFTER GOD and PERHAPS FEEL THEIR WAY TOWARD HIM AND FIND HIM--- — THOUGH HE IS NOT FAR FROM ANY ONE OF US. --- FOR IN HIM WE LIVE AND MOVE AND EXIST.
As some of your own poets have said, ‘WE ARE HIS OFFSPRING.’ ---- And since this is true, WE SHOULDN'T THINK OF GOD AS an IDOL DESIGNED BY CRAFTSMEN FROM GOLD or SILVER or STONE. --- “GOD OVERLOOKED PEOPLE’S IGNORANCE ABOUT THESE THINGS IN EARLIER TIMES, --- BUT NOW HE COMMANDS EVERYONE EVERYWHERE TO REPENT OF THEIR SINS AND TURN TO HIM. Acts 17:22

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * Think again, you fools! ---- WHEN WILL YOU FINALLY CATCH ON? ----IS HE DEAF — THE ONE WHO MADE YOUR EARS? --- IS HE BLIND — THE ONE WHO FORMED YOUR EYES? --- HE PUNISHES the NATIONS — WON'T HE ALSO PUNISH YOU? --- HE KNOWS EVERYTHING - DOESN'T HE ALSO KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING? --- THE LORD KNOWS PEOPLE’S THOUGHTS; HE KNOWS THEY ARE WORTHLESS! --- JOYFUL ARE THOSE YOU DISCIPLINE, LORD , THOSE YOU TEACH WITH YOUR INSTRUCTIONS. Ps 94:8

* * * * * * * * * * * * * DON'T YOU REALIZE THAT YOUR BODIES ARE ACTUALLY PARTS OF CHRIST? --- SHOULD A MAN TAKE HIS BODY, WHICH IS PART OF CHRIST, AND JOIN IT TO A PROSTITUTE? - NEVER! - AND DON’T YOU REALIZE THAT IF A MAN JOINS HIMSELF TO A PROSTITUTE, HE BECOMES ONE BODY WITH HER? --- For the Scriptures say, “THE TWO ARE UNITED INTO ONE.” --- BUT THE PERSON WHO IS JOINED TO THE LORD IS ONE SPIRIT WITH HIM. --- RUN FROM SEXUAL SIN! --- NO OTHER SIN SO CLEARLY AFFECTS THE BODY AS THIS ONE DOES. --- FOR SEXUAL IMMORALITY IS A SIN AGAINST YOUR OWN BODY. --- DON’T YOU REALIZE THAT YOUR BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, --- WHO LIVES IN YOU AND WAS GIVEN TO YOU BY GOD? ---YOU DO NOT BELONG TO YOURSELF, --- FOR GOD BOUGHT YOU WITH A HIGH PRICE. --- SO YOU MUST HONOR GOD WITH YOUR BODY. 1Cor6:15 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

BE CAREFUL THEN, dear brothers and sisters. MAKE SURE THAT YOUR OWN HEARTS ARE NOT EVIL AND UNBELIEVING, TURNING YOU AWAY FROM THE LIVING GOD. --- YOU MUST WARN EACH OTHER EVERY DAY, WHILE IT IS STILL “TODAY,” --- SO THAT NONE OF YOU WILL BE DECEIVED BY SIN AND HARDENED AGAINST GOD. --- FOR IF WE ARE FAITHFUL TO THE END, TRUSTING GOD JUST AS FIRMLY AS WHEN WE FIRST BELIEVED, --- WE WILL SHARE IN ALL THAT BELONGS TO CHRIST. --- REMEMBER what it says: “TODAY WHEN YOU HEAR HIS VOICE, DON'T HARDEN YOUR HEARTS AS ISRAEL DID WHEN THEY REBELLED.” Heb3:12

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *WISDOM SHOUTS IN THE STREETS. --- SHE CRIES OUT IN THE PUBLIC SQUARE. SHE CALLS TO THE CROWDS ALONG THE MAIN STREET, --- TO THOSE GATHERED IN FRONT OF THE CITY GATE: “HOW LONG, YOU SIMPLETONS, WILL YOU INSIST ON BEING SIMPLEMINDED? HOW LONG WILL YOU MOCKERS RELISH YOUR MOCKING? --- HOW LONG WILL YOU FOOLS HATE KNOWLEDGE?--- COME AND LISTEN TO MY COUNSEL. --- I'LL SHARE MY HEART WITH YOU AND MAKE YOU WISE.--- MY CHILD, IF SINNERS ENTICE YOU, TURN YOUR BACK ON THEM! --- IF A BIRD SEES A TRAP BEING SET, --- IT KNOWS TO STAY AWAY. - BUT THESE PEOPLE SET AN AMBUSH FOR THEMSELVES; --- THEY ARE TRYING TO GET THEMSELVES KILLED. - SUCH IS THE FATE OF ALL WHO ARE GREEDY FOR MONEY; --- IT ROBS THEM OF LIFE. Prov 1:17 * * * *

MAY THE GRACE OF GOD BE UPON YOU, AND HIS SPIRIT BE YOUR GUIDE - SHALOM...