Did you hear the news today? Jesus, the One crucified on the cross, is risen! Do you believe it? Have you told anyone about it? Jesus' resurrection is unreasonable and awe-inspiring. It was no more reasonable more than 2,000 years ago than it is today. Rise from the dead? How? And why wasn't there any warning? There was. The prophets, and Jesus himself, repeatedly foretold this death and resurrection. At least three times, we are told, Jesus predicted His impending death.
On Easter Sunday the church tells the story of the empty tomb and the charge by the messenger to “go and tell.” For the next several weeks Christians tell and retell stories of Jesus’ first followers who encountered Him against all hope. Amidst their doubt, fear, and longing, suddenly He was present -risen from the dead, and encountering them in a locked room, by the lakeshore, on the road to Emmaus.
The Church combines these resurrection stories with stories from Acts of the Apostles: the efforts of the first Christian communities to spread the gospel through the world. The early church celebrated these weeks after Easter. They instructed newly baptized Christians during this time, and encouraged them to explore, in their new community, the joyful mystery of the encounter of the risen Christ with their lives. As we celebrate, we learn again to recognize the risen Jesus where He is to be found: in our midst, in our stories, in the breaking of the bread - and as we faithfully bear witness to the reality of Christ’s presence to the world.
Jesus said: "See, we are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be handed over to the chief priests and scribes, and they will condemn him to death; then they will hand him over to the Gentiles to be mocked and flogged and crucified; and on the third day he will be raised" (Matthew 20:18-19).
Yet the witnesses at Jesus' tomb were surprised. The Gospel of Mark tells us that "terror and amazement" seized them. They were so afraid they said nothing to anyone - at first. But when they began sharing the good news of God's love for both Jews and gentiles, the Holy Spirit moved among them (Acts 10).
Likewise today, the Easter story of God's love for all should be shared. We too are disciples of Jesus, growing in Christ's image and our relationship with God. The Easter story inspires and asserts God's unfathomable love for us: Jesus broke the powers of sin and death, canceled our debt of sin and opened the way to new life through God's grace.
We need that good news, and so does our world. Economic turbulence, warfare and injustices run rampant today. We live in "catastrophic, catatonic, catalytic" times. Our world yearns for new movement. Evil, though not always acknowledged, is among us. But the Easter story reminds us how Jesus embodied God's redeeming love for all.
Like those first witnesses at Jesus' grave, how often are we afraid, unwilling or not invited to share our stories? Created in God's image, we each have a piece of God's story. As we welcome each other into this unfolding story, we empower each other. Storytelling, at its core, is an act of hospitality. And we have an amazing story to tell: Jesus no longer lives among us but within us.
We continue sharing today. "This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it," says Psalm 118:24.
And what a reason for gladness and joy: The Lord is risen! Now let us share this good news with the world.
I AM - BECAUSE HE FIRST LOVED ME! ~ Stafford
“For if, while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to Him through the death of His Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through His life!” ~ Romans 5:10
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Monday, July 21, 2014
Life's Desire... I just want to be
Hi, Mommy
I'm your baby. You don't know me yet, I'm only a few weeks old. You're going to find out about me soon, though, I promise. Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I've got beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don't have it yet, but I will when I'm born. I'm going to be your only child, and you'll call me your one and only. I'm going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we have each other. We'll help each other, and love each other. I want to be a doctor when I grow up. ... You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn't wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I know it already. ... Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about me! ...He wasn't happy,Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don't think that you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called wedlock, and money, and bills,and stuff I don't think I understand yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay.
Then he did something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay... but I was very sad for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That's a sound I don't like. It doesn't make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after, and he hugged you again.You forgave him, Mommy, but I'm not sure if I do. It wasn't right. You say he loves you... why would he hurt you? I don't like it, Mommy. ... ... ... ... ...
Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and you're so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes, and you were so so so happy.You sing to me, too. You have the most beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I'm happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.
I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love you, Mommy.
... ... ... ... ... ...
Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting funny and he wasn't talking right. He said he didn't want you. I don't know why, but that's what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry, Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won't let you get hurt! I promise to protect you. Daddy is bad. I don't care if you think that he is a good person, I think he's bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn't want us. He doesn't like me. Why doesn't he like me, Mommy?
You didn't talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?
It's been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven't talked to me or touched me or anything since that. Don't you still love me, Mommy? I still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don't you do that when you're awake, any more?
I'm 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren't you proud of me? We're going somewhere today, and it's somewhere new. I'm excited. It looks like a hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did Itell you that? I hope you're as excited as I am. I can't wait.
...Mommy, I'm getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don't knowwhat you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think something's going to happen soon. I'm really, really, really scared, Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love you!
Mommy, what are they doing to me!?It hurts! Please make them stop! It feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!
Don't worry Mommy, I'm safe. I'm in heaven with the angels now. They told me what you did, and they said it's called an abortion.
Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don't you love me any more? Why did you get rid of me? I'm really, really, really sorry if I did something wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why don't you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care about me, and not talk to me. Didn't I love you enough? Please say you'll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don't want to be here, I want you to love me again! I'm really really really sorry if I did something wrong. I love you!
I love you, Mommy.
Every abortion is just…
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.
“Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” -James 1:22
I'm your baby. You don't know me yet, I'm only a few weeks old. You're going to find out about me soon, though, I promise. Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I've got beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don't have it yet, but I will when I'm born. I'm going to be your only child, and you'll call me your one and only. I'm going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we have each other. We'll help each other, and love each other. I want to be a doctor when I grow up. ... You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn't wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I know it already. ... Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about me! ...He wasn't happy,Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don't think that you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called wedlock, and money, and bills,and stuff I don't think I understand yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay.
Then he did something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay... but I was very sad for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That's a sound I don't like. It doesn't make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after, and he hugged you again.You forgave him, Mommy, but I'm not sure if I do. It wasn't right. You say he loves you... why would he hurt you? I don't like it, Mommy. ... ... ... ... ...
Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and you're so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes, and you were so so so happy.You sing to me, too. You have the most beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I'm happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.
I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love you, Mommy.
... ... ... ... ... ...
Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting funny and he wasn't talking right. He said he didn't want you. I don't know why, but that's what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry, Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won't let you get hurt! I promise to protect you. Daddy is bad. I don't care if you think that he is a good person, I think he's bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn't want us. He doesn't like me. Why doesn't he like me, Mommy?
You didn't talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?
It's been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven't talked to me or touched me or anything since that. Don't you still love me, Mommy? I still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don't you do that when you're awake, any more?
I'm 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren't you proud of me? We're going somewhere today, and it's somewhere new. I'm excited. It looks like a hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did Itell you that? I hope you're as excited as I am. I can't wait.
...Mommy, I'm getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don't knowwhat you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think something's going to happen soon. I'm really, really, really scared, Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love you!
Mommy, what are they doing to me!?It hurts! Please make them stop! It feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!
Don't worry Mommy, I'm safe. I'm in heaven with the angels now. They told me what you did, and they said it's called an abortion.
Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don't you love me any more? Why did you get rid of me? I'm really, really, really sorry if I did something wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why don't you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care about me, and not talk to me. Didn't I love you enough? Please say you'll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don't want to be here, I want you to love me again! I'm really really really sorry if I did something wrong. I love you!
I love you, Mommy.
Every abortion is just…
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.
“Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.” -James 1:22
Sunday, January 12, 2014
'Til death us do part,,,
"What God has joined together, let no man put asunder..." - this admonishment has again come to light, very often recently, in posts identifying people caught up in abusive marriages and partnerships. Often it is their religious counselors (priests, pastors, ministers, etc) who encourage the abused spouse to 'stick it out' because the union is 'ordained' by God. And I believe this charge is read and applied incorrectly... (I'm not familiar with the exact references to this directive in the Koran or the Torah, etc - but similar guidelines exist)
A marriage partnership under God requires the condition of being equally-yoked. You should, and must, discover this condition before you contemplate a legal and God-sanctioned union, if you want to be guaranteed a successful relationship that outlasts your time here on earth. God has to be the centre and anchor of the marriage. If either spouse starts drifting away from this requirement, the communion of God's grace is lost, and then the union is doomed for disaster - and what 'God has joined together' has been broken by the breakdown of the internal workings of the partnership.
The admonishment is more aimed at the rest of mankind, then, who may seek to destroy the marriage from a point external to the partnership - which hinges and impacts on the one of Ten Commandments' caution: 'You will not commit adultery - or - 'You will not covet your neighbour's wife'.
A shared purpose to serve the Lord is key to a strong marriage. If you want to take a walk with someone, you must decide together on the direction. If you want to walk through life with your spouse, you must decide together which direction you want to go : toward God and eternity with Him, or away. A unified commitment to walking with God is the key to experiencing daily divine moments together.
Commitment to stay together, no matter what, is essential for a strong and lasting relationship. If you leave open the option for splitting up some day, chances are you will. If you don't see breaking up as an option, you will be committed to making your marriage work in all circumstances. This commitment joins you together in pursuing and accomplishing united lifelong goals, under God's grace and His Holy Spirit's guidance. - Brings to mind: 'The family that prays together, stays together.'
Healthy romance and physical love are important for a strong and happy marriage because they allow you to express intimacy and vulnerability in a way different from any other relationship. They foster special closeness that demonstrates your complete openness to each other. This is what sets marriage apart as a committed relationship like no other and makes it a symbol of your relationship with God.
If any of the aforesaid is missing and the relationship becomes abusive from any quarter, then I urge all of you who have been swayed to 'stick it out' because you have been told that you will be causing God's displeasure for breaking His bond, to strongly reconsider your options... the bond is already broken. - When last have you and your spouse prayed together? This is the initial acid test -
Thank you for taking the time to read this - God bless - love Staf
A marriage partnership under God requires the condition of being equally-yoked. You should, and must, discover this condition before you contemplate a legal and God-sanctioned union, if you want to be guaranteed a successful relationship that outlasts your time here on earth. God has to be the centre and anchor of the marriage. If either spouse starts drifting away from this requirement, the communion of God's grace is lost, and then the union is doomed for disaster - and what 'God has joined together' has been broken by the breakdown of the internal workings of the partnership.
The admonishment is more aimed at the rest of mankind, then, who may seek to destroy the marriage from a point external to the partnership - which hinges and impacts on the one of Ten Commandments' caution: 'You will not commit adultery - or - 'You will not covet your neighbour's wife'.
A shared purpose to serve the Lord is key to a strong marriage. If you want to take a walk with someone, you must decide together on the direction. If you want to walk through life with your spouse, you must decide together which direction you want to go : toward God and eternity with Him, or away. A unified commitment to walking with God is the key to experiencing daily divine moments together.
Commitment to stay together, no matter what, is essential for a strong and lasting relationship. If you leave open the option for splitting up some day, chances are you will. If you don't see breaking up as an option, you will be committed to making your marriage work in all circumstances. This commitment joins you together in pursuing and accomplishing united lifelong goals, under God's grace and His Holy Spirit's guidance. - Brings to mind: 'The family that prays together, stays together.'
Healthy romance and physical love are important for a strong and happy marriage because they allow you to express intimacy and vulnerability in a way different from any other relationship. They foster special closeness that demonstrates your complete openness to each other. This is what sets marriage apart as a committed relationship like no other and makes it a symbol of your relationship with God.
If any of the aforesaid is missing and the relationship becomes abusive from any quarter, then I urge all of you who have been swayed to 'stick it out' because you have been told that you will be causing God's displeasure for breaking His bond, to strongly reconsider your options... the bond is already broken. - When last have you and your spouse prayed together? This is the initial acid test -
Thank you for taking the time to read this - God bless - love Staf
Friday, July 26, 2013
Inasmuch as you did it unto the least of these...
Pastor Jeremiah Steepek transformed himself into a homeless person and went to the 10,000 member church that he was to be introduced to as the head pastor at that morning. He walked around his soon to be church for 30 minutes while it was filling with people for service.... only 3 people out of the 7,000 to 10,000 people said hello to him. He asked people for change to buy food.... NO ONE in the church gave him change. He went into the sanctuary to sit down in the front of the church and was asked by the ushers if he would please sit in the back. He greeted people to be greeted back with stares and dirty looks, with people looking down on him and judging him.
As he sat in the back of the church, he listened to the church announcements and such. When all that was done, the elders went up and were excited to introduce the new pastor of the church to the congregation.... "We would like to introduce to you Pastor Jeremiah Steepek"... The congregation looked around clapping with joy and anticipation... The homeless man sitting in the back stood up... and started walking down the aisle... the clapping stopped with ALL eyes on him... he walked up the altar and took the microphone from the elders (who were in on this) and paused for a moment... then he recited:
“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’"
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’"
After he recited this, he looked towards the congregation and told them all what he had experienced that morning... many began to cry and many heads were bowed in shame.... He then said: 'Today I see a gathering of people... not a Church of Jesus Christ. The world has enough people, but not enough disciples... when will YOU decide to become disciples?' He then dismissed service until the next week... Being a Believer is more than something you claim. It's something you live by and share with others...
Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” -Hebrews 11:1
As he sat in the back of the church, he listened to the church announcements and such. When all that was done, the elders went up and were excited to introduce the new pastor of the church to the congregation.... "We would like to introduce to you Pastor Jeremiah Steepek"... The congregation looked around clapping with joy and anticipation... The homeless man sitting in the back stood up... and started walking down the aisle... the clapping stopped with ALL eyes on him... he walked up the altar and took the microphone from the elders (who were in on this) and paused for a moment... then he recited:
“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’"
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’"
After he recited this, he looked towards the congregation and told them all what he had experienced that morning... many began to cry and many heads were bowed in shame.... He then said: 'Today I see a gathering of people... not a Church of Jesus Christ. The world has enough people, but not enough disciples... when will YOU decide to become disciples?' He then dismissed service until the next week... Being a Believer is more than something you claim. It's something you live by and share with others...
Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.” -Hebrews 11:1
Sunday, June 02, 2013
Sunday morning... coming down.
I got out of bed this morning, Sunday 02 June 2013 @ 08:20 a.m. - I had already been awake since about 05:00 a.m.; but the sounds of the storm still raging outside, had kept me under the covers. My morning prayer, which was conducted from there too, included a line seeking God's indulgence for not (and this always gives me a kick) 'rising up to kneel'...
It would seem the cold, wet weather had cut into my enthusiasm to give thanks from a more reverent position and focus. And it struck me how easily one can be swayed from following your convictions; how fickle and affected you can be - '...the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak...' in this case. True worship requires all of you; heart, mind, soul and body... I didn't give it my ALL; did God still place any value on my morning prayer? Then another thought struck me; we should not enter into worship to make ourselves feel good about worship - we pray alone; and commune in church - to worship, to have fellowship, to sing praises SO THAT GOD WILL FEEL GOOD! The inspiration it gives one is a spin-off, a by-product... a blessing. (p.s. we please God immensely when we ask for His assistance and share our troubles with Him, too)
I, nevertheless, do believe that God still heard my morning prayer - I probably didn't impress Him as much as I could have, but He heard it... (I did a 'do-over' later) As for the weather's lesson - if something so natural and elemental (even now fully predictable) can sway my convictions and worthy action, how much less does it take for my nature (character) to be diluted by unpleasant and unexpected events and circumstances - betrayal, illness, financial strains, ungratefulness, etc. - makes one blink, doesn't it?
May God bless and guide our attitude and actions today! (",)
It would seem the cold, wet weather had cut into my enthusiasm to give thanks from a more reverent position and focus. And it struck me how easily one can be swayed from following your convictions; how fickle and affected you can be - '...the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak...' in this case. True worship requires all of you; heart, mind, soul and body... I didn't give it my ALL; did God still place any value on my morning prayer? Then another thought struck me; we should not enter into worship to make ourselves feel good about worship - we pray alone; and commune in church - to worship, to have fellowship, to sing praises SO THAT GOD WILL FEEL GOOD! The inspiration it gives one is a spin-off, a by-product... a blessing. (p.s. we please God immensely when we ask for His assistance and share our troubles with Him, too)
I, nevertheless, do believe that God still heard my morning prayer - I probably didn't impress Him as much as I could have, but He heard it... (I did a 'do-over' later) As for the weather's lesson - if something so natural and elemental (even now fully predictable) can sway my convictions and worthy action, how much less does it take for my nature (character) to be diluted by unpleasant and unexpected events and circumstances - betrayal, illness, financial strains, ungratefulness, etc. - makes one blink, doesn't it?
May God bless and guide our attitude and actions today! (",)
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Becoming a World-Class Believer
The Great Commission is your commission – either be a world-class believer or a worldly believer…
As a world-class believer God invites you to participate in the greatest, largest, most diverse and most significant cause in history – His kingdom. Someday the Great Commission will be the Great Completion. It is a small world after all – every corner of the globe is available to you (ask any travel agent) – we have no excuse not to spread the Good News. And with Internet access we can personally communicate with people in virtually every country on earth. It has never been easier in history to fulfill your commission to go to the whole world. To be a world-class believer, all you have to do is change your perspective and attitude.
+ Shift from self-centred to other-centred thinking.
Children only think of themselves; grownups think of others. This is a difficult mental shift because we’re naturally self-absorbed. The only way we can make this paradigm switch is by a moment-by-moment dependence on God. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you to think of the spiritual need of unbelievers whenever you talk to them – develop the habit of praying silent ‘breath prayers’ for those you encounter. (Something like, “Father help me fathom what is keeping this person from knowing You.”
+ Shift from local to global thinking.
God has always cared about the entire world. Our lives are increasingly intertwined with those in other nations as we share fashions, entertainment, music, sports and even fast-food. (Not to mention wars, sanctions, poverty, arms trade, etc) These are exciting days to be alive. There are more believers on earth right now than ever before! World-class believers pray for the whole world, country by country. (So keep abreast with international news media)
Prayer is the most important tool for your mission in the world. (I JUST LOVE THE POWERFUL FEELING THIS GIVES ME!) People may refuse our love or reject our message, but they are defenseless against our prayers! The Bible tells us to pray for opportunities to witness, for courage to speak up, for those who will believe, for the rapid spread of the message and for more field-workers.
+ Shift from ‘here and now’ to eternal thinking.
Maintain an eternal perspective – distinguish between what’s urgent and what’s ultimate. So much of what we waste our energy on will not matter even a year from now, much less for eternity. Don’t trade your life for temporary things. (‘GOD created us an original, don't die a copy’) You can’t take it with you – but you can send it on ahead by investing it in people who are going to be there!
+ Shift from making excuses to creating solutions to fulfill your commission.
Common excuses are: ‘I only speak English’, ‘I don’t have anything to offer’, and ‘I’m too old {or too young}’ God doesn’t want to use just some of His people; He wants to use all of His people. Many believers have missed God’s plan for their lives because them have never even asked God where and how He wants them to serve. (You can’t sit around waiting for some supernatural feeling or an epiphany) Seriously pray and ask God what He wants from you in the years ahead – there are over 7 billion people on earth, and Jesus wants all His lost children to be found.
The Great Commission is your commission, and doing your part is the secret to living a life of significance.
Let’s go mission together in the love of the Lord… ~ Stafford
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.” -James 1:12
Tuesday, December 25, 2012
Christmas Crux - One Solitary Life...
He was born in an obscure village, the child of a peasant woman. He grew up in another obscure village, where He worked in a carpenter shop until He was thirty. Then for three years He was an itinerant preacher. He never had a family or owned a home. He never set foot inside a big city. He never traveled two hundred miles from the place He was born. He never wrote a book, or held an office. He did none of the things that usually accompany greatness...
While He was still a young man, the tide of popular opinion turned against Him. His friends deserted Him. He was turned over to His enemies, and went through the mockery of a trial. He was nailed to a cross between two thieves.While He was dying, His executioners gambled for the only piece of property He had, His coat. When He was dead, He was taken down and laid in a borrowed grave...
Twenty centuries have come and gone, and today He is the central figure for much of the human race. All the armies that ever marched and all the navies that ever sailed and all the parliaments that ever sat and all the kings that ever reigned, put together, have not affected the life of man upon this earth as powerfully as this, One Solitary Life...
“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” -Isaiah 9:6
Monday, December 10, 2012
Believers' Q&A
Why does God
allow suffering?
Probably the most difficult aspect of suffering is that we rarely have
a reasonable explanation for it. The Bible makes it clear that the world we
live in is a fallen world, a world in rebellion against God and therefore prone
to calamities. There are floods and earthquakes, plagues such as AIDS, and
man-made disasters such as war, drug abuse and oppression. Clearly, no one is
exempt from some form of hardship. Remember, we are being tested; God always
has hidden purposes behind allowing people to suffer.
How can a just
God tell us to forgive bad people?
First, because we know that at some stage we have all violated God's
perfect standard of goodness. None of us deserves forgiveness from God, yet
He took the initiative to forgive humankind when Jesus paid the penalty for
our sins by dying on the cross. This is the crux of the Christian message. When
we accept the forgiveness of God, God calls us to pass on that forgiveness to
others.
The second reason is that we can fight hatred by forgiving. If we did
not forgive, we would give in to bitterness, which is like a root that would
eventually grow to harm us even further. Forgiveness helps us to cope with
events that we can do nothing about. Sometimes the demand for revenge is like trying to move a fallen
tree instead of stepping round it. By forgiving those who wrong us, we allow
ourselves to move ahead in our lives.
Why doesn't God answer my prayers?
Why should He? Is God under obligation to us? We often act as though He
is, and when things go wrong we expect Him to jump to our rescue. But when
Jesus taught us to take our needs to God, he also taught us to pray, "Your
will be done on earth, as it is in heaven." Our duty is to surrender to
God's will.
What happens after we die?
The Bible teaches that there are two possible
destinies for you and me, depending on the way we respond to Jesus Christ in
this life. Jesus described these two destinies as the narrow road to eternal
life and the broad road to eternal destruction. Those who love and obey Him in
this world will not only get to enjoy eternity with Him, but will actually
become like Him, sharing His wisdom, joy and complete fulfillment. Those who
reject Jesus, however, will be separated from Him for all eternity. Scripture
calls this separation everlasting death, an agony souls will suffer without
end.
Over the years, this Biblical view of life
after death - heaven or hell - has become a sort of medieval myth to many,
including some who claim to be Christians. Yet Jesus clearly refers to heaven
and hell as eternal destinations for humankind. He intended to drive home the
terrible urgency of the choice we have to make - whether or not to follow Him
- during our short lives on earth.
How can a loving God send people to hell?
It is true that God is love, but that is not
all He is. He is also holy - in other words, perfect. Because God is perfect,
in His eyes not one of us could really be called good. Each of us has made a
selfish choice at least once in our lives. Maybe we lied, cheated on our income
tax, failed to help someone in distress, paid less than a fair wage to a worker.
Can we expect a just and perfect God to ignore wickedness, however small? God
offers forgiveness through His Son, Jesus Christ. Only those who accept this
salvation can shed their own wickedness and meet God's perfect standard.
Is God and His Church still relevant in the 21st century?
For over 100 years, modern thinkers have been
saying that humankind has outgrown the need to worship God. They assume that
technology, science and philosophy can give our lives meaning. But so far no
discovery, invention or formula has been found that transforms the lives of
people who are broken-hearted, sick or dying. Underneath the sinking sand of
tears, grief and loss there is a solid rock. That rock is our faith in Christ;
a faith that has helped millions through 2 000 years of turbulent history. It
will continue to do so until the end of time, for one simple reason: because
God became one of us, yet without sin. Jesus was God in human form. In Christ,
God shared our limitations – He understands…
He lived among the poor. He joined funeral processions
and weddings. He held children in His arms. He wept for those He loved. He was
betrayed by His friends and was brutally tortured to death. His life was, and
is, the greatest story ever told, God's perfect plan for the restoration of His
Creation. And it all began when a young maiden gave birth to a baby in Bethlehem .
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Lucky Dip...
It's would be quite difficult to carry out a scientific
prayer study when a specific appeal is being made to God; after all, most times
our plans are not in line with God’s irrefutable wisdom and plans.
One thing is
clear; it's the attitude of the person praying that is the most important
variable - the intention of the person asking God to intervene. The most important
purpose of prayer is intimacy with God. This sense of relationship with a
divine being has profound psychological effects - prayer offers a sense of
comfort.
Whether or not prayers are actually answered doesn't really matter.
When you receive a request to pray for the distressed, sick and suffering,
people aren't expecting a miracle cure, more often than not, they seek the
spiritual strength that comes from knowing others are offering prayers in
support.
For many, that is where the power of prayer resides.
– Not perfect,
but a good start…remember faith in the wisdom of God is of paramount benefit
and importance to achieve true discipleship...
Thursday, September 20, 2012
Loving Deliverance...
If you are wise enough to realise you need help - you will look for someone who can literally "take your hand", and walk the "grow up" path with you - until you are measurably competent to carry on yourself .. because YOU CAN! And the most exciting time of your life, has just begun - as you thunder ahead, making life 'deliver-up' on YOUR terms. But before that happy end result can be yours, have to FIND that "someone" who will 'take your hand' - I believe this with all my heart -
Too many struggle on by themselves - admirable persistence; but futile alone - get help! - seek assistance! - commune! - embrace fellowship! Just stop trying to do it all by yourself... (",)
A good special-friend can't fix all your problems, but they can promise you won't face them alone. Everyone you meet comes with baggage; find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack... When it comes to relationships, remaining faithful is never an option but a priority. Loyalty is everything.
Patiently rely on the promises of God, not on your emotions. A friendship based on emotions is shallow, if anything. Circumstances cannot change the character of God; hence His grace is still in full force. When we feel abandoned by God yet continue to trust Him, we worship Him in the deepest way.
The end of the road is but a bend in the road - Helen Steiner Rice
Love is not in those cards and gifts. It's when you hold each others' hand while crossing the road and you choose to face the oncoming traffic. Its when your heart regains a beat after searching for him or her in crowd. Its when just one look assures you that he or she won’t leave you. It's when you pray secretly that your beloved should succeed in everything!!!
When we feel we have nothing left to give
And we are sure that the "song has ended"--
When our day seems over and the shadows fall
And the darkness of night has descended,
Where can we go to find the strength
To valiantly keep on trying,
Where can we find the hand that will dry
The tears that the heart is crying--
There's but one place to go and that is to God
And, dropping all pretense and pride,
We can pour out our problem without restraint
And gain strength with Him at our side--
And together we stand at life's crossroads
And view what we think is the end,
But God has a much bigger vision
And he tells us it's only a bend--
For the road goes on and is smoother,
And the "pause in the song" is a "rest,"
And the part that's unsung and unfinished
Is the sweetest and richest and best--
So rest and relax and grow stronger,
Let go and let God share your load,
Your work is not finished or ended,
You've just come to "a bend in the road."
Thursday, September 13, 2012
Learning Discernment…
A wise man led me to a cordon of stately trees surrounding his pasture. He hoped the parable they held for him would serve for me as well I knew him to be a wise man, living in seclusion with his wife, but willing, he said, to receive me if I were ever in his part of the world.
I had heard him speak years before and had recently read several of his books. Now I was seeking him out because I had hopes his wisdom might relieve the gnawing melancholy that darkened my days. Financial losses, love denied and an old disability had combined to take much of the savour from my life.
On a clear, late-winter day, I found him on his farm, surrounded by fields and woodlands shrouded in snow. After years of writing and lecturing and helping others, as a minister and "physician to the soul," he was now applying his own wisdom to himself. He had been struck down by a stroke. It left him paralyzed on his right side and unable to speak. The original prognosis had been grave. They told his wife, of over 50 years, that recovery of speech was unlikely. Yet within a few weeks he had regained his ability to talk and he was determined to recover still more of his faculties.
He rose to greet me. He was a distinguished-looking man of middle height, moving slowly, aided by a cane, with an unmistakable sparkle in his gaze. He led me into his study. It was lined with books, new and old, all surrounding a desk on which sat a word processor and reams of papers and magazines. He said he was glad to hear that his books had helped me. They had, indeed, I said, but still, a series of setbacks had added up to a sorrow I wasn't sure I could master.

"Nevertheless, what you're going through is related to grief. What's essential is to mourn your losses fully and find solace by learning to live with them." People who don't, he added, wind up bitter and disillusioned by sorrow. They're unable to find solace. But others who creatively use the act of mourning can gain new sensitivity and a richer faith. "That's why you so often hear that we have to talk out our feelings, express our emotions. That's part of the mourning process. Only then can healing follow.
"Let me show you something," he offered, pointing through the window to a stand of bare sugar maples, stolidly facing the sharp winds that plucked at their barren branches and sent a dusting of yesterday's snowfall shimmering down. A former owner had planted the maples around the perimeter of a one-hectare pasture.
We walked out from a side door and moved slowly on the crunching snow to the pasture. It was a rocky expanse rife with grass and wild flowers in summer, but now brown and wizened by frost-kill. Strung between each large tree, I noticed, were strands of old barbed wire.
"Sixty years ago the man who planted these trees used them to fence in this pasture, and saved a lot of work digging fence-post holes. It was a trauma for the young trees to have barbed wire hammered into their tender bark. Some fought it. Others adapted. So you can see here, the barbed wire has been accepted and incorporated into the life of this tree - but not of that one over there."
He pointed to an old tree severely disfigured by the wire. "Why did that tree injure itself by fighting against the barbed wire, while this one here became master of the wire instead of its victim?" The nearby tree showed no marks at all. Instead of the long, anguished scars, all that appeared was the wire entering on one side and emerging on the other - almost as if it had been inserted by a drill bit.

He could not explain what happened to the maples, he admitted. "But with people," he continued, "things are much clearer. There are ways to confront adversity and work your way through that mourning period. First, you try to keep a youthful outlook. Then you don't bear grudges. And perhaps most important, you make every effort to be kind to yourself. That's the tough one. You have to spend a lot of time with yourself, and most of us tend to be far too critical. Sign a peace treaty with yourself, I say. Forgive yourself for the silly mistakes you've made."
After another pensive glance at the maple grove, he led the way back into the house. "If we are wise in the way we handle grief, if we can mourn promptly and fully, the barbed wire doesn't win. We can overcome any sorrow, and life can then be lived triumphantly. I try to keep a growing edge on my life, seeking new knowledge, new friendships, new experience," he continued, glancing over to the computer and half a dozen new books on his desk. He had been waging his own battle. He was still frustrated by his partially paralyzed right side, but he wasn't conceding defeat.
"We can use our painful experiences as excuses for retreat. Or we can accept the promises of resurrection and rebirth." His gaze turned towards the snow-mantled pasture across the road. "You have your problems. I have my own struggles. I'll work on mine," he offered, "if you work on yours."
I thanked him, and promised I would, and then we shook hands. We had a deal. I felt I had won some new understanding - and now had a strategy for handling my sorrows.
As I drove down the valley, I could glimpse his farm across the meadows. The wind toyed with the lofty tops of those living fence posts, which, though still mysterious, had so much to say to all of us.
Look for God in all things; His lessons abound everywhere! ~ Stafford
Friday, September 07, 2012
Lasting Delight...
Daniel's Gloves
I sat, with two friends, in the picture window of a quaint restaurant just off the corner of the town-square. The food and the company were both especially good that day. As we talked, my attention was drawn outside, across the street. There, walking into town, was a man who appeared to be carrying all his worldly goods on his back. He was carrying, a well-worn sign that read, 'I will work for food.' My heart sank.
I brought him to the attention of my friends and noticed that others around us had stopped eating to focus on him. Heads moved in a mixture of sadness and disbelief. We continued with our meal, but his image lingered in my mind. We finished our meal and went our separate ways. I had errands to do and quickly set out to accomplish them. I glanced toward he town square, looking somewhat halfheartedly for the strange visitor. I was fearful, knowing that seeing him again would call some response. I drove through town and saw nothing of him. I made some purchases at a store and got back in my car.
Deep within me, the Spirit of God kept speaking to me: 'Don't go back to the office until you've at least driven once more around the square.' hen with some hesitancy, I headed back into town. As I turned the square's third corner, I saw him. He was standing on the steps of the church, going through his sack.
I stopped and looked; feeling both compelled to speak to him, yet wanting to drive on. The empty parking space on the corner seemed to be a sign from God: an invitation to park. I pulled in, got out and approached the town's newest visitor.
'Looking for the pastor?' I asked.
'Not really,' he replied, 'just resting.'
'Have you eaten today?'
'Oh, I ate something early this morning.'
'Would you like to have lunch with me?'
'Do you have some work I could do for you?'
'No work,' I replied 'I commute here to work from the city, but I would like to take you to lunch.'
'Sure,' he replied with a smile.
As he began to gather his things, I asked some surface questions. Where you headed?'
St. Louis '
'Where you from?'
'Oh, all over; mostly Florida ..'
'How long you been walking?'
'Fourteen years,' came the reply.
I knew I had met someone unusual. We sat across from each other in the same restaurant I had left earlier. His face was weathered slightly beyond his 38 years. His eyes were dark yet clear, and he spoke with an eloquence and articulation that was startling He removed his jacket to reveal a bright red T-shirt that said, 'Jesus is The Never Ending Story.'
Then Daniel's story began to unfold. He had seen rough times early in life. He'd made some wrong choices and reaped the consequences.. Fourteen years earlier, while backpacking across the country, he had stopped on the beach in Daytona... He tried to hire on with some men who were putting up a large tent and some equipment. A concert, he thought.
He was hired, but the tent would not house a concert but revival services, and in those services he saw life more clearly. He gave his life over to God
'Nothing's been the same since,' he said, 'I felt the Lord telling me to keep walking, and so I did, some 14 years now.'
'Ever think of stopping?' I asked.
'Oh, once in a while, when it seems to get the best of me But God has given me this calling. I give out Bibles That's what's in my sack. I work to buy food and Bibles, and I give them out when His Spirit leads.'
I sat amazed. My homeless friend was not homeless. He was on a mission and lived this way by choice. The question burned inside for a moment and then I asked: 'What's it like?'
'What?'
'To walk into a town carrying all your things on your back and to show your sign?'
'Oh, it was humiliating at first. People would stare and make comments. Once someone tossed a piece of half-eaten bread and made a gesture that certainly didn't make me feel welcome. But then it became humbling to realize that God was using me to touch lives and change people's concepts of other folks like me.'
My concept was changing, too. We finished our dessert and gathered his things. Just outside the door, he paused He turned to me and said, 'Come Ye blessed of my Father and inherit the kingdom I've prepared for you. For when I was hungry you gave me food, when I was thirsty you gave me drink, a stranger and you took me in.'
I felt as if we were on holy ground. 'Could you use another Bible?' I asked.
He said he preferred a certain translation. It traveled well and was not too heavy. It was also his personal favorite... 'I've read through it 14 times,' he said.
'I'm not sure we've got one of those, but let's stop by our church and see' I was able to find my new friend a Bible that would do well, and he seemed very grateful.
'Where are you headed from here?' I asked.
'Well, I found this little map on the back of this amusement park coupon.'
'Are you hoping to hire on there for a while?'
'No, I just figure I should go there. I figure someone under that star right there needs a Bible, so that's where I'm going next.'
He smiled, and the warmth of his spirit radiated the sincerity of his mission. I drove him back to the town-square where we'd met two hours earlier, and as we drove, it started raining. We parked and unloaded his things.
'Would you sign my autograph book?' he asked... 'I like to keep messages from folks I meet.'
I wrote in his little book that his commitment to his calling had touched my life. I encouraged him to stay strong. And I left him with a verse of scripture from Jeremiah, 'I know the plans I have for you, declared the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you; Plans to give you a future and a hope.'
'Thanks, man,' he said. 'I know we just met and we're really just strangers, but I love you.'
'I know,' I said, 'I love you, too.' 'The Lord is good!'
'Yes, He is. How long has it been since someone hugged you?' I asked.
A long time,' he replied
And so on the busy street corner in the drizzling rain, my new friend and I embraced, and I felt deep inside that I had been changed.. He put his things on his back, smiled his winning smile and said, 'See you in the New Jerusalem.'
'I'll be there!' was my reply.
He began his journey again. He headed away with his sign dangling from his bedroll and pack of Bibles. He stopped, turned and said, 'When you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?'
'You bet,' I shouted back, 'God bless.'
'God bless.' And that was the last I saw of him.
Late that evening as I left my office, the wind blew strong. The cold front had settled hard upon the town. I bundled up and hurried to my car. As I sat back and reached for the emergency brake, I saw them... a pair of well-worn brown work gloves neatly laid over the length of the handle. I picked them up and thought of my friend and wondered if his hands would stay warm that night without them.
Then I remembered his words: 'If you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?'
Today his gloves lie on my desk in my office.. They help me to see the world and its people in a new way, and they help me remember those two hours with my unique friend and to pray for his ministry. 'See you in the New Jerusalem,' he said. Yes, Daniel, I know I will...
'I shall pass this way but once. Therefore, any good that I can do or any kindness that I can show, let me do it now, for I shall not pass this way again.'
'Father, I ask you to bless my friends, relatives , e-mail and network buddies reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask you to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through your grace, In Jesus' precious Name Amen.'
This story is so touching I felt each of you would enjoy it greatly.
GOD BLESS YOU, MY FRIENDS... AND YOUR FAMILIES!!!
Monday, August 27, 2012
Life Driven with loving purpose #1
Life is all about love.
Because God is love, it is in loving that we are most like Him. It is the foundation of every command He has given. God wants us to love everyone, but He is particularly concerned that we learn to love others in His family. God wants His family to be known for its love more than anything else - it is our greatest witness to the world. We have some tough work to do here on earth to prepare ourselves for an eternity of loving.
Love cannot be learned in isolation. You have to be around people - irritating, imperfect, frustrating people.
THE BEST USE OF LIFE IS LOVE
Love is not a good part of life; it is the most important part. It shouldn't be forced neither should it be a duty nor tool for affirmation or acceptance; it should be the natural foundation of your relationships with everyone. (flipping difficult!) Relationships must have priority in your life.
LIFE without love is really worthless~
God says relationships are what life is all about - Four of the 10 Commandments deal with love for God, the other six deals with relationships to other people.
The 1st and Greatest Commandment is - "Love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, soul, mind and strength.

(It is a sin against God not to love yourself, because by not looking after yourself and being sound and stable and healthy - you are of no use to anybody else, and to God's commandments.)
Relationships, not achievements or the acquisition of things, are what matters most in life. The point of life is learning to love - God and people. Life minus love equals zero...
LOVE will last forever~
Love leaves a legacy. Love is the secret of a lasting heritage. When life on earth is ending, people don't surround themselves with objects (although I have heard of some weird burial requests); we want people we love and have relationships with present.
Wisdom is learning THAT truth - sooner rather than later. Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to realise what matters more!
WE will be evaluated on our love~
Love is what we will be evaluated on in eternity. God measures spiritual maturity by the quality of our relationships. When you transfer into eternity, you will leave everything else behind. All you're taking with you is your character. You can therefore never love enough - we don't know, we'll never learn, until we try under God's guidance.
THE BEST EXPRESSION OF LOVE IS TIME
The more time you give to something, the more you reveal its importance and value to you. Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it - you are effectively giving a portion of your life. So we must prove our relationships are important by investing time in them. In our relationships love is spelt 'T-I-M-E'.
Love is focused attention and it concentrates so intently on another that you forget yourself at that moment - it says I value you enough to give you my most precious asset - my time. You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving.
Love means giving up - yielding my preferences, comfort, goals security, money energy or time for the benefit of another.
THE BEST TIME TO LOVE IS NOW
Procrastination is a legitimate response to a trivial task; but because love is what matters most, it takes top priority.
You don't know how long you will have the opportunity to express love. Circumstances change. People die. Children grow up. You have no guarantee of tomorrow. If you want to express love, you had better do it now!
THE BEST USE OF LIFE IS LOVE.
THE BEST EXPRESSION OF LOVE IS TIME.
THE BEST TIME TO LOVE IS NOW.
What more can I say...? Show your Love right now! ~ SB
1 Cor 13:3b (Msg) "No matter what I say, what I believe and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love"
“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” -1 John 4:18
Tuesday, August 21, 2012
Lesson Dealt...
Over the years I have encountered and heard about people with every kind of trouble under the sun; and it has left me with one clear conviction: in case after case, the difficulty could have been overcome, or might never have arisen, if the men and women involved had only treated each other with common courtesy.
Courtesy, politeness, good manners - call it what you will, in our hectic society the supply never seems to equal the demand. Human beings everywhere hunger for courtesy, and are repelled by the lack of it. As quoted by Ralph Waldo Emerson: “Good manners are the happy way of doing things.” And the reverse is equally true: bad manners can ruin a day - or wreck a friendship.
Most of us, I think, have the uneasy feeling that “common courtesy” was much more common in Emerson’s day than it is in ours. Why should this be so? One explanation is that courtesy isn’t emphasized and enforced the way it was a century or even a generation ago. “Mind your manners,” my mother used to caution us as children whenever we were invited anywhere. There is a simple difference between manners and morals - your morals aren’t always showing; your manners are.
Good manners are a reflection of inner strength and assurance. Indeed, they promote such assurance by eliminating hostility and suspicion. “If we treat people long enough with that pretended liking called politeness,” a wise man has said, “we shall find it hard not to genuinely like them in the end.” If courtesy is such an asset, why is it so uncommon? The blunt reason is that we’re all born self-centred. Good manners require us to place other people’s needs on a level with our own - and learning to do this consistently can be a slow and painful process.
What are the basic ingredients of good manners? Certainly a sense of justice is one; in fact, courtesy very often is nothing more than a highly developed concept of fair play. The story is told of a man driving along a narrow, mountain dirt road. Ahead was another car that produced clouds of choking dust. It was a long way to the tarred highway. Suddenly, the car ahead pulled off the road. The man stopped and asked if anything was wrong. “No,” said the other driver, “but you’ve endured my dust this far; I’ll put up with yours the rest of the way.” This was unexpected, heartening courtesy.
Another ingredient of good manners is modesty. Any attempt to claim special credit for yourself is a departure from true politeness. Implicit in the exhortation to “mind your manners” is the inescapable fact that no one else can mind them for you. The problem is yours, and it lasts a lifetime because no one’s manners are ever perfect. Still, anyone can improve his or her manners by doing three things:
First, by practising courtesy. One simple way is to concentrate on your performance in a specific area for a day or even a week. Telephone manners, for example: how often do you speak abruptly, talk too long, keep people waiting, and fail to identify yourself? What about books on loan you haven’t returned, invitations you haven’t answered, casual promises you haven’t kept?
Second, by thinking courtesy. If your thoughts are predominantly self-directed, a discourteous and selfish person is what you will be. If you train yourself to be considerate, if you can acquire the habit of ‘identifying’ with the problems and hopes and fears of other people, good manners will follow almost automatically.

Finally, you can improve your manners by accepting courtesy, receiving it gladly, and rejoicing when it comes your way. Strangely, some people are suspicious of gracious treatment. They feel uneasy if kindness seems to come to them with no strings attached. But some of the most precious gifts in life come this way. You can’t buy a sunset, or earn the song of a bird. These are God’s courtesies to us, offered with love and no thought of reward or return. Good manners are, or should be, like that.
In the end, it all comes down to how you regard people - not just people in general but individuals. Indeed, politeness is good manners in action. A nice additional beatitude might be this: Blessed are the courteous.
“If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.” -2 Chronicles 7:14
Tuesday, August 07, 2012
Love Deep... be special to someone
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Babykin |
The special people in this world are the most precious
and the most appreciated people of all.
No matter what happens, they always understand.
They go a million miles out of their way.
They hold your hand.
They bring you smiles, when a smile is exactly what you need.
They listen, and they hear what is said
in the spaces between the words.
They care, and they let you know you're in their prayers.
Special people always know the perfect thing to do.
They can make your whole day just by saying something
that no one else could have said.
Sometimes you feel like they share with you
a secret language that others can't tune into.
Special people can guide you, inspire you, comfort you
and light up your life with laughter.
Special people understand your moods and nurture your needs.
They lovingly know just what you're after.
When your feelings come from deep inside
and the need to be spoken to someone;
you don't have to hide from, you share them.
...With special people.
When good news comes
Special people are the first ones you turn to,
When feelings overflow and tears need to fall.
Special people help you through it all.
Special people bring sunlight into your life.
They warm your world with their presence,
whether they are far away or close by your side.
Special people are gifts that bring happiness and
treasures that money can't buy.
~ Author Unknown ~
“What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived”— the things God has prepared for those who love him—” -1 Corinthians 2:9
Saturday, August 04, 2012
Life Divine... with love divine
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Thank you, each and everyone for the inspiring and blessed 50th Birthday wishes |
When you speak from your heart; and say the words your soul has only dared to whisper; that's when miracles happen.
"Even when you think God is long gone, if you can remember to ask for help, you will see that He has been there all along."
I encourage you to believe for things that are so big that they take God’s favour, blessings and divine intervention to make them a reality...
This is what the LORD says, He who made the earth, the LORD who formed it and established it - the LORD is His name: ‘Call to Me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know. - Jeremiah 33:2-3
Friday, July 27, 2012
Less Denials...
Everything happens for a reason - I believe that... in fact I believe things happen for a multiple number of reasons - not necessarily always directly related to my circumstance. That thing that didn't play out the way I wanted it to doesn't mean I am being denied my wish - I have been divinely withheld from that accomplishment maybe because the timing isn't right; or something better is coming my way or someone else needed my input in the matter to accomplish something really important in their life - and I was then a part of that, most times unknowingly. - Exactly why we must be grateful for everything; no matter how irritating, or satisfying, even devastating - the reason will eventually be revealed...
- ACCEPTANCE is vital to maintain a positive outlook - through it we can continue to dream our dreams - we need to practice it more often - Stafford (from the heart)
“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,” -Hebrews 12:1
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Lament Diluted...
Any given suffering is one very long moment. We
cannot divide it by seasons. We can only record its moods, and chronicle their
return. When we wallow in suffering; time itself does not progress. It
revolves. It seems to circle round one centre of pain. The paralysing
immobility of a life so lived allows every circumstance to be regulated after
an unchangeable pattern, so that we eat, drink, lie down and pray according to
the inflexible laws of an iron formula: this immobile quality that makes each
dreadful day in the very minutest detail like its brother. This state of being seems
to communicate itself to those external forces the very essence of whose
existence is ceaseless change – and so we remain in our state of suffering.
Added to this - the biggest problem we humans have
is coping with suffering. Pain, injury, disease and death are denials of life.
Whatever we say to make it seem less painful it doesn't make it easier. It
doesn't make sense. It just doesn't add up. Stand beside the coffin of a fifteen
year-old girl who has died of cancer, or a child of three who has been killed
in an accident and you will know how it feels. And the whole world of medicine
and surgery is geared to combating the lessening of life that pain and
suffering inflict.
Over the centuries, through ancient times, the
problem of suffering baffled human minds and afflicted human hearts, destroying
happiness and shattering people's confidence in a Higher Power. Broken hearts
ached as they buried their dead and watched their dear ones suffer, all the
time asking, "Why? Why? Why? Will it ever end?" And they packaged
that hope of perfect health into the dreams of the golden age that they
imagined God (or whatever they conceived Him to be) would one day bring to
pass.
Many surgical and medical miracles later we still
dream and hope that that ancient longing will come true. But of course human
life is human life and this side of eternity it will always include a tragic
element. But that is no reason why we shouldn't still pray, dream, work and
hope. There are some realities that are part of God's final salvation. But that
final salvation impinges on life here. God's future golden age reaches into
this not-so-golden present age and bids us trust where we cannot understand and
hope where we cannot see.
Acceptance and forgiveness are essential for a life
lived with purpose – finding and having someone special to share and support us
through the trials is indeed a divine blessing – at all cost don’t deny
yourself this gift of fellowship. ~ SB
“Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and
assurance about what we do not see.” -Hebrews 11:1
Monday, July 23, 2012
Losing Dust... cleaning house.
It kept me from being me; I couldn’t do things God’s way.
I threw out a book on MY PAST (didn’t have time to read it anyway).
Replaced it with NEW GOALS, started reading it today.
I threw out HATE AND BAD MEMORIES. Remember how I treasured them so?
Got me a NEW PHILOSOPHY too, threw out the one from long ago.
Brought in some new books too, called I CAN, I WILL and I MUST …
Threw out I MIGHT, I THINK and I OUGHT TO.
Wow, you should have seen the dust.

His name is GOD the Father and I really like His style.
He helped me to do some cleaning and added some things Himself.
Like PRAYER, HOPE, FAITH and LOVE
Yes I placed them right on the shelf.
I picked up this special thing and placed it at the front door;
It’s called PEACE. Nothing gets me down anymore.
Yes, I’ve got my house looking nice.
Looks good around the place.
For things like Worry and Trouble there just isn’t space.
It’s good to do a little house cleaning,
Get rid of the things on the shelf.
It sure makes things brighter; maybe you should try it yourself.
BE BLESSED AND BE A BLESSING TO SOMEONE ELSE...
“Let the little children come to Me, and do not hinder them, for the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these.”” -Matthew 19:14
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Life Duties... to yourself be true
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.
Don't associate with people you can't trust.
Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend.
Don't dictate because you are smarter.
Don't demand because you are stronger.
Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough and know better.
Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don't stagnate.
Don't regress.
Don't live in the past. Time can't bring anything or anyone back.
Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won.
Only a price to be paid for some of life's more hasty decisions.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of what you can be.
Simplify your life.
Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous liaisons.
Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.
Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself.
Don't commit when you are not ready.
Don't keep others waiting needlessly.
Say those words. Don't let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.
Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.
Cry at the movies.
Take care of yourself...
Don't wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you - except YOU.
It is true that life does not get easier with age... it only gets more challenging.
Don't be afraid.
Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in God.
Don't grow old. Just grow YOU!
“I will praise you with an upright heart as I learn your righteous laws.” -Psalm 119:7
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