Bible Verse of the Day

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

In break-ups - age is still but a number...

Whether it is called off by you or your partner, break up has always been the toughest decision we make in our lives. Breaking up with someone we love always brings some other emotions like shock, disbelief, relinquishment, chaos, guilt, anger, an eager search for a relief other than sorrow. But dealing with the pain is never easy; neither is easy to heal the broken hearts.

Sometimes, we find relief in another person; while sometimes we devote our time in our daily chores. But the throngs of a break up haunt us even if we are in a relationship with another person or become the busiest person in the world.

Maybe the impact of a break up can differ according to the age and the maturity level of a person. For most of the teens, handling a break up is next to impossible; while for most of the adults, break ups are just a phase of life. Teens start their lives from this age and parting away from a person, whom they love, is not an easy task. But adults should have more maturity and experience as they have learnt how to cope up with break ups since their teenage years. I guess it depends on your attitude towards life and how you can handle the whole situation.

Life in a Love by Robert Browning

Escape me?
While I am I, and you are you,
So long as the world contains us both,
Me the loving and you the loth,
While the one eludes, must the other pursue.
My life is a fault at last, I fear— 
It seems too much like a fate, indeed!
Though I do my best I shall scarce succeed— 
But what if I fail of my purpose here?

It is but to keep the nerves at strain,
To dry one's eyes and laugh at a fall,
And baffled, get up to begin again,— 
So the chase takes up one's life, that's all.
While, look but once from your farthest bound,
At me so deep in the dust and dark,
No sooner the old hope drops to ground
Than a new one, straight to the selfsame mark,
I shape me— 

The hurt and pain in the end is the same for everyone that a romantic dissolution touches and affects; be strong and keep your Compass close ~ Stafford

“To them God has chosen to make known...the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. He is the one we proclaim, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, so that we may present everyone fully mature in Christ.” -Colossians 1:27-28